If this is your first time here, let me save you some wandering and take you by the hand instead.
BellaYin is for the woman who is starting over in midlife and finding her way back to herself. If that is you, welcome. You are in the right place, and you do not have to read everything at once. Start with these, in this order. They are the heart of what this place is about.
First, read this, because it is the truest thing I know about healing. How to Heal the Younger Part of Yourself and Step Into the Woman You Are Becoming. This one is about gathering up the frightened version of yourself instead of leaving her behind. If you only read one thing today, read this.
Then, when you are wondering where your strength will come from. Crisis Strength vs. Chosen Strength, Which One Are You Building From. You are stronger than you think, and the proof has been there all along.
When you feel invisible or alone in all of this. A Love Letter to the Women Who Serve, Protect, Heal, and Rescue, and She Called Just To Say She Was Thinking Of Me. Two letters about being seen, and about the quiet people who remind us we are not alone.
And when you simply need something soft. The little companions who change the whole atmosphere of a hard day. Pixie inspired this one.
When you are ready for more, here is the most important thing you can do. Join The BellaYin Letter. Every Sunday morning I send a new letter, written for the woman in the middle of becoming. It is free, it is personal, and it will be waiting in your inbox like a note from a friend who understands exactly where you are.
I am so glad you found your way here. Take your time. Read slowly. And remember, you are not lost. You are becoming.
Norma & Pixie 🐾